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by the maltese franciscans in london
Many folks ask us about our ministry to the sick. It is
really the principal outreach that we have in the London community. In
theory our ministry should work out to four hours each weekday for two
friars but it is hard to work to a stopwatch. We find that many times our
time spent visiting the sick goes beyond what is written down on paper.
As friars we work in conjunction with the staff at the
Malta High Commission who act as a liason between our franciscan community
and the Health Department of the Government of Malta. Since our presence
and ministry are officially recognized the staff at Malta House provide us
with lists of patients presently in London for medical treatment by
arrangement between the Government of Malta and the Health Authorities of
Great Britain. This information allows us to plan our visits to the
patients and their families while they are in hospital.
Our patients are spread out in different hospitals
throughout the greater London area but we find that because many are here
for specific treatments, they end up under the care of certain consultants
who are willing to work in tandem with the Health Authorities in Malta. A
list of the hospitals we visit frequently might mention: The Great Ormond
Street Children's Hospital, The National Hospital for Neurological
Disorders, The Royal London Hospital, The Royal Marsden Hospital (Fulham
and Sutton Branches), The Royal National Orthopaedic Hospital at Stanmore,
Middlesex Hospital and Moorfields Eye Hospital. There are other hospitals
which we visit as necessary but for the past two years the majority of
patients being sent to hospitals in Greater London would have passed
through at least one of the institutions named above. This list can change
as it has changed in the past. (Most notably, in recent history adult
cardiac cases are being handled in Malta and so the contact with St.
Mary's Hospital in Paddington has been drastically reduced to a handful of
patients a year.)
Our ministry to the sick can be very traditional,
spiritual and even sacramental. There are times when there is no specific
religious dimension and what we do would seem to be providing the family
with a simple (albeit important) human presence. That may be how it is
perceived by an unbeliever but on our part our presence is resonant with
that of the compassionate human Annointed One of God. At other times we
are asked to be present as interpreters for patients who are not
comfortable with the English language.
The Maltese who come to London are diverse in their
background. Sometimes they are not even Maltese--we have had Russians,
Brits and Italians who either live in Malta or who live in Malta and are
married to Maltese nationals. One would have to point out that we have
also had a number of Maltese who do not consider themselves Catholics.
We present ourselves as Franciscans and offer our
presence to all patients who are listed but they are never forced to open
up and we are well beyond the point of trying to convert those who are not
active members of the Church. We have visited patients who have never
asked for a prayer, we have prayed with non-catholics and we have
certainly been there for Catholics who are struggling with their faith or
those who live an intense faith life and desire the support of our
sacramental ministry.
Many patients take the time to telephone before they
leave or to drop a note when they return home, especially if they have
returned home without having the opportunity to take their leave in
person. Some patients are here for short stays, some treatments can
average four to six months, some come back for subsequent check-ups. One
gets to know people over time and sickness can often intensify the
process. Our experience is that most patients appreciate having a visitor
who knows their language and understands their culture. Sickness is a
trial and being in a foreign country can add further insecurity and
disorientation to the myriad of issues which the patient and/or his/her
family have to process. We do our best to be a balm soothing their
spirits.
When they talk about what has touched them about the
friars who have visited them they mention many things: a smile, a soft
word of encouragement, someone with whom to share a joke, a reminder of
Maltese traditions or foods, a silent presence of solidarity, a warm touch
on the shoulder, a shoulder to cry on, a tear shared: all of these things
seem relatively small but can mean so much.
We deal with the patients themselves but we also deal
with their families. For many families the experience of serious sickness
is new. Beyond the language difficulties there are many other hardships
the family endures including loneliness and isolation, dietary
difficulties, financial difficulties, marital difficulties. It is all very
well to say that sickness brings families together but many times it seems
to make things even more difficult: nerves are frayed, exhaustion becomes
overpowering, boredom, poor diets, past issues, disturbed sleep patterns
are just a few of the factors which come into play
Although our co-operation with Malta House puts us in
contact with Maltese people coming from Malta to London for medical care,
we do often visit other Maltese who have come here for privately funded
treatments or are living in London and are in hospital for different
treatments or at home convalescing. Some of their problems are different
but the Maltese Language, Culture, Faith and Identity are all important
factors prompting the sick themselves, or their families, to ask for our
visits.
In the long run we have also come to realize that not
only do we build relationships with our Maltese brothers and sisters but
we also begin to touch the lives of the hospital staff...especially those
whose domains we enter regularly. At first we are other bodies passing
through their surreal fields of vision. Then they come into contact with
us as we regularly visit each patient and eventually a series of patients.
A rapport is formed and eventually the hospital staff realizes that they
can turn to us as resource people for their appropriate needs. Here too we
reach out to the greater community for we are members of a universal
community of God's people and we cannot allow ourselves to become national
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